Before You Leave

Maybe I’m just an OCD list lover, but does anyone else make lists of things to do before they leave on a trip?  I’m not talking about a packing list… I’m talking about the list of papers to print, things to arrange, etc… I keep an open list on my phone for about a month before I leave so I can check off and add things to the to do list when they pop in my head.  Here are a some of things I write on my list to check off before I go anywhere.

  • Create a to pack list: We all have that moment during the day where we think, “oh, I need to remember to pack xyz.” Just have a list (yes a second list).
  • Create a travel folder: Print color copies of your passports, travel itinerary, any confirmations you receive, travel insurance, etc… I also make a copy to leave at my house with my mother.
  • Notify your bank: I learned this the hard way. I was once on a road trip and used my card in two different states and then did an online purchase where the transaction was processed in a different state, which led the bank to shut down my card.  Go by your bank a few days before you leave and let them know where you are going and if you need to remove any limits on transactions.
  • Safe deposit box: This may be my insurance background going into overdrive, but I’ve always kept a safe deposit box that holds important documents and when I travel I let the bank know to give access to my mother and/or husband if something were to happen to me. I keep car titles, my husband’s adoption papers, birth certificates, our will, and copies of life insurance documents.
  • Insurance: I make sure whoever is watching over my home knows who to call if something were to happen to the house and claim needed to be started. I also make sure that whoever is watching my child has a copy of my health insurance card.
  • A will: If you don’t have a will and you have a child at home, get a will before you leave on your next trip.
  • Alarm: I always call my home monitoring company and give them the number to whoever is watching or staying at my home while I’m gone so that if it gets set off, that person is immediately called. Also make sure this person knows your password and alarm code.
  • House keys: Again, we learned this the hard way. We returned home during a power outage and our garage door wouldn’t open and my mom had already left to return home… with our house key.
  • Medical: If you have a child at home, make sure you leave a notarized document granting a certain person the right to make medical decisions for your little one while you are gone.
  • Pay your bills: You don’t want to return home to your water being shut off because you forgot about it.
  • Take out your trash: You don’t want to return home to a stinky garage or kitchen.
  • Cash to tip with: We always carry an envelope with enough bills in small denominations to cover tipping.
  • Car maintenance: If you are going on a road trip, have your vehicle looked over for any issues during the oil change prior to leaving.

What are some things you make sure are done before you travel?

Road Trip Through Waco


Last month I headed to Houston for a summer visit.  My niece wanted to come back with me so we decided to take a little detour through Waco to visit the beloved Silos at Magnolia Market that serve as the background to one of our favorite shows on HGTV.

We checked in to the Hilton in Waco, which I must say, was just top notch.  The price and location was great.  We arrived a little early but they said we could go on and check in.  It is right across from the river and suspension bridge.  You cannot beat the location, which is why I can’t wait to return for a football game.

We headed out to the Silos the next morning so we could be there right when the doors opened.  Our hotel was right by the trolley pickup but it was a nice morning so we opted to walk.  We got there about 10 minutes before the doors opened and there was already a line, but don’t worry, once the doors open it moves quick.  It was a Saturday so it was a bit a crowded.  We had a hard time being able to look at stuff and considering we had a stroller for my son, that made it even tougher.  Had my husband been there, he probably would have stayed with my son out on the lawn to play games until we were done.  We made it to the merchandise area and grabbed t-shirts, hats, and coffee mugs.  There will be a line at the bakery but just do it, it’s worth the wait.  I let my niece play with my toddler out on the lawn while I got the cupcakes.  The lemon lavender was like having a unicorn do a little dance in your mouth.  On our next trip, I’ll probably try to go on a weekday so I can browse some of the home décor.

We then headed back to the hotel to unwind before we hit the road again.  We took a nice stroll on the bridge to get some great pictures.  I also wanted to read all the monuments because I’m a history nerd.  Apparently though, no trip is complete without a stop at In and Out Burger so we had to try one.  I confess, it was delicious.

So, if you get the chance and are doing a road trip through Texas, just take the time to stop off and visit Waco.  You can get a night’s rest and visit a couple things the next morning and still be on the road by lunch.  Also, if you are driving through the town of West, Texas which is just about 15 minutes or so north of Waco on I35, stop at the bakery there call Little Czech Bakery. I always stop to get cookies to bring back.

Cruise Review: Carnival Freedom 7 night Caribbean Cruise

Cruise Review: Carnival Freedom 7 night Caribbean Cruise

In April of this year we took our second cruise, first on the freedom, to the alternate Caribbean route you can choose leaving Galveston.  Our stops included Cozumel, Belize, and Roatan.  We booked ours during a time of reduced deposits about 9 months in advance and booked our excursions 6 months in advance.  That may seem like way too far in advance for some but it was nice having everything paid for completely three months before we ever left.  We also traveled with my Dad and Stepmom.

Day 1:  My Dad and Stepmom live about two hours from the Galveston port, so my husband and I drove in the night before to stay and their house and ride together.  My best advice for embarkation day is

  • GET THE FASTER TO THE FUN PASS: We chose an 11 o’clock check in and we were on the boat having lunch (I recommend Guy’s Burgers) and drinking a beer by noon.  Also, since this pass allows you to board so much earlier, take about 10 minutes to just walk to the ship and get acquainted with the different areas.  We stayed on deck 7 towards the back of the boat and we were within two floors of most of the areas we wanted to be in so we rarely took the elevators.
  • DOWNLOAD THE APP: Carnival has their own app so link up to their WIFI, put your phone on airplane mode, and find the other people in your party with their ID number so you can text while on the cruise.  This app also has an itinerary for what’s happening on the ship, a map of the ship, and a quick view of your bill.
  • ENTER THE SPA DRAWING: Yes, you must take a tour of the spa and they encourage you to book services for that night but if you’re lucky you’ll win one of the gift cards. I won a $100 gift card which I used towards a keratin treatment.
  • UNPACK YOUR SUITCASE: You will be so happy you did when come day three your room doesn’t look like a bomb went off, and your stewards will also thank you.
  • EAT IN THE DINING HALL: This just really sets the tone for your cruise.  Not to mention, the food is just amazing.
  • FOR THE COFFEE LOVERS: I’m a coffee drinker.  Like I can’t function without it.  So, at night I would put out the door hanger asking for my coffee to be delivered for whatever time I wanted to wake up.

Day 2:  This was our first sea day.  I loved having a balcony room.  I would sit out on the balcony sipping my coffee and enjoying the sunrise.  Downside, the people next to us were smokers so once they came out for their morning cig I would go back inside.  I loved taking a cruise with my family for this reason… we all got to do our own thing.  So, we all started out having a bloody mary together but my husband and I wanted to lay out and get some sun and my parents wanted to just roam the ship and piddle around.  We all did our thing then met up later that evening for formal dinner and dined together.  After dinner, we all literally went and did our thing and loved it.  One person wanted to go read their book out on the deck, one wanted to gamble, one wanted to go to the comedy show, and one wanted to go watch the movie on the top deck.

Day 3: Cozumel.  There were 3 ships in port that day.  We chose the excursion “la casa en la playa.”  This was a beach house retreat and on an excursion, that usually has 40 people, there were only 22 of us so it was very relaxing and we got a lot of attention.  It’s an all-inclusive excursion so the drinks were flowing and food was always available.  One of the guides took people snorkeling and sent us the pictures at no charge.  You are right on the beach but if you would rather cool off in the pool, it’s there too.  You can also get a massage right on the beach as well.  They also bring you back with plenty of time left to shop.

Day 4: Belize.  We anchored in Belize right as a massive storm hit.  In Belize, you must use tender boats to get to shore.  We were the last tender boat allowed to leave and most other excursions were cancelled.  People were falling down the stairs of the tender and since the storm was so bad we were an hour late starting our Mayan Ruins excursion, which took an hour to get to anyway.  The ruins were great once we got there but we were wet and rushed and honestly just wished we would have gotten our money back and stayed in the spa that day.  We were so frazzled that we had to have a glass of wine when we got back before we even got ready for dinner.  On a positive note, the ruins were incredible to see.  There are also Howler monkeys all over the ruins that make the sound of a T-Rex.  I’m not joking.  The sounds they make are the actual sound that was used for the T-Rex in Jurassic Park.  I had a bit of a Jeff Goldblum moment where I looked around for the closest Jeep to make an escape. Here’s a tip though when booking your excursions… That morning when excursions were getting cancelled, Carnival was helping people get refunds or rebook something else.  If you didn’t book with Carnival you were SOL.  Also, if your excursion returns late to the tender boat, the ship will wait on Carnival excursions but not for non-carnival booked ones.

Day 5: Roatan.  If I could insert one of those praising hands emoji’s I would.  This port is BEAUTIFUL!.  Again, the Faster to the Fun pass comes in handy when you want to get started on your excursion.  We chose a private beach cabana rental.  It’s a flat price of $250 for up to 4 people.  It had lounge chairs, a hammock, a deck with more chairs, and a private indoor area if you needed some shade.  However, the outdoor deck was shady enough and the misters were going off over the hammock.  This isn’t an all-inclusive cabana but a server from Fat Tuesday’s is coming by every half hour or so.  And even though your ticket says six hours, you get it for up until the boat is leaving.  It’s got its own security so we felt safe leaving our stuff while we cooled off in the water.  This is worth every penny!  We got there right about 8:30 and didn’t head back to the boat till 3, which left us time to go to the shops under the pavilion where you can get locally made stuff.  Grab a bag on Honduran coffee and a handmade cross.

Day 6: This sea day was a rain out.  So I myself started out at the lounge bar drinking a bloody mary while my husband went to the gym.  They have early games of bingo so once he was done we headed to that.  Guess what?  I won the grand prize game!  Oh but there’s a catch… you have to do a bean bag toss.  I had to send my husband since I was two drinks in already and we won $250 to which I immediately headed to the Invicta watch sale and walked away with a gorgeous watch.  Winning!  We spent some time in the casino that day and took naps.  My dad and I gambled at slots while my husband played blackjack.  One thing about rainy days on a cruise ship is it does push people inside so our ship was really smoky.  I really don’t remember our cruise on the Magic being so bad but on this trip our clean clothes in our suitcase still smelled like cigarette smoke.  Not to mention huff and puff in the room next to us smoked every night to so when we went to bed we could smell it.

Day 7:  Our last sea day was perfect weather.  We had already gotten so much sun that we just sat in the shaded areas and drank our fruity drinks while we day dreamed about other trips we wanted to take.  It’s also a great day to hit up the sales in the gift shop and jewelry store or book a massage.  One thing I will say about the spa, is that the camp carnival is right above it so just expect to hear some stomping.

Day 8: Debarkation Day.  We opted to take our suitcases with us that morning vs. leaving them in the hallway the night before since we have the FTTF pass.  We still went up to the lido deck and had one last omelet.  Then we were through customs and in our car to head back by 8:30 that morning.

Pros about our cruise:  It’s a great way to travel with family and there’s a little something for everyone to do on ports and on the ship.  Plus I love getting to pay a chunk towards it each month.

Cons about our cruise:  The cigarette smoke made it almost unbearable to be in some areas and when you pay for a balcony, you kind of expect to be able to enjoy it.  If we were to do this itinerary again I would honestly wait for the Carnival Vista to get to Galveston before going again.


Cruising With Your Family


Cruising With Your Family…

We’ve all had those moments around the holidays.  The wine is flowing, bellies are full, and everyone is getting along.  A light bulb moment happens for someone.  “You know what, we should all take a trip together AS A FAMILY.”  “Yeah let’s do it!”  It’s kind of one of those moments you brush off and think oh we weren’t serious… were we?  A few months go by and I see an alert for half off deposits on a cruise I’ve been eyeing.  I send my husband a text to let him know it’s booking time and he responds, “so are you going to tell your Dad?”  I send a group text to my dad and stepmom thinking they’ll say no, but to my surprise they both respond with excitement.  Did we just book a cruise with my parents?  Yep.  I’m here to tell you though, this is hands down the absolute best way to do a family vacay!  Here’s a few tips and reasons why this should be your next option when that conversation happens again at Christmas this year.

  • Use a travel agent: I’m not talking about calling up the cruise line and using their booking agent.  I’m talking about your local travel agency.  I’ve been using Kathy Cardott, Travel With Kathy, for years.  The good thing is that even though my family is 6 hours away from me.  She spoke with them and handled them like they lived down the street.  She’s so good that my family will continue to use her despite the fact that they are in Texas and she is in Oklahoma.  When my dad brought up having side-by-side rooms, Kathy emailed me and said “no, no, no… you need at least two rooms as a buffer.”   Close but not too close.
  • Pictures: While it’s sometimes annoying to have the cruise line’s camera crew in every area of the ship, you do tend to see a few nice family shots.  The last family photo I have with my dad is from my wedding.
  • There’s something for everyone: There was literally a night where all four of us were doing something different on the ship.  I wanted to go watch the movie on the top deck, my Dad wanted to go to the comedy show, my husband wanted to go play blackjack, and my stepmom wanted to have some quiet time listening to the waves and read her book.  Everyone did something different and everyone was happy.
  • You still get alone time: My husband and I both work crazy hours so were thinking we wouldn’t get to have any time to just relax alone together since we were on the cruise with my parents.  There were three sea days on our cruise and for two of them my husband and I did our own thing on the ship then met up with family for lunch and dinner.  The third sea day we had quite a bit of rain so we spent the day together playing bingo, playing slots, and just hung out.  It was great!
  • Dining: If you go hungry on a cruise it’s your own fault.  There are so many options between the buffet deck and all the options in your dining room that you won’t have to worry about the “well I’m hungry for this” argument.
  • Bathroom breaks: Nothing makes me more upset then getting in the car and twenty minutes into a trip I hear “I need to go to the bathroom.” Enough said.

When the trip ended, I started to feel a bit bummed.  Not because we were leaving the ship and all the tropical paradises’ we had just visited, but because I genuinely had a great time with my dad, stepmom, and husband.  My dad is 70 and I got to see a whole different side of him compared to the family trips we took as kids.  I also go to see a side of my stepmom that I’ve never really given her a chance to show.